Thanks Rowena that's so hilarious ! after all the drama, they still want your business :) they finally got back to me, they said I can pay about $9/month for about 30,000 emails per month, but I don't send campaigns emails and I don't have that many users :)  so $9/mnth will be a waste..  Is SendinBlue free of charge ? all I need for now is to stop my site's emails from going to my users' SPAM box..  Thx.