So let me understand what you are saying here...

You don't want to pay a yearly fee (and have security), you failed to make sure your payment get processed, you received two notice ahead and you complain because your site gets deleted. What do you expect ? That services provider will pay to give you some free service ? That they'll charge more to every user so they can make backups and keep them for people who failed to take care of their own business ?

Oh and just like that, if you'd really had a site with that much investment than maybe you should have had in mind to think more than one month at a time. How long do you provide free service for people when they don't pay ?