not to hijack this thread, but I am also having issues....in the config does it matter if the certs are in the same folder or not? like I set the root as "/home/user/ssl" and the cert as /certs/cert.cert and the keyfile as /keys/key.key
also when setting up the reverse proxy for it so I can have https://messenger.mysite.net I get a proxy error, though I know I have it set properly. I think if I can get the reverse proxy working properly I will be able to get it working as when I goto https://mysite.net:5443 I get the cert error because the cert is for messenger and not for mysite. So it is finding the right certs.
Edit: I can get it to work by going directly to the port, but would eventually love to be able to have it use the reverse proxy.